Collaborative Divorce Attorneys Serving The Inland Empire Since 1997

Divorce is never easy, but it doesn’t have to be a battle. At The Law Office of Soheila Azizi & Associates, P.C., we offer collaborative divorce services that provide a respectful, cost-effective alternative to traditional courtroom litigation. This cooperative approach allows you and your spouse to work together – with the support of trained attorneys and other professionals – to reach agreements that prioritize your family’s well-being, protect your children and give you control over your future.

We’ve helped Inland Empire families navigate divorce with dignity and respect since 1997, and we’re here to guide you through every step.

How To Talk With Your Spouse About Collaborative Divorce

Before talking with your spouse about entering a collaborative divorce, you should always understand what this type of divorce entails. Collaborative divorce is known as a fairly new method of alternative dispute resolution as far as family law is concerned. It is a method where lawyers on both sides of the divorce process agree to assist the clients in resolving any and all conflicts. This is through the usage of cooperative techniques rather than other strategies of your typical litigation. The parties and their lawyers will often agree to enter into a “participation agreement,” which is where it is agreed that if a settlement is not reached together, the lawyers will then withdraw from the process and not participate in the ensuing litigation.

All that being said, how can one discuss options with the opposing side in a divorce and bring up the possibility of resolving issues collaboratively? Some may agree it is best not to have to deal with the divorce, overall becoming a fight in court, and that this may be an easier direction and process to take that suits their style. Here are some reasons why collaborative divorce may work for a couple and how it can be further discussed as an option:

Thinking About The Children

Collaborative divorce typically uses a team of specialists who support the couple through this difficult time. Divorce coaches and child specialists have special expertise in the area of child development and will be there for them emotionally throughout the process. The key is to help create an effective parenting plan that takes into account the developmental needs of the children involved. It also focuses on benefits for the parents in the future as they work together for their children. When it comes to collaborative divorce, both parents should realize that the needs of the children are the paramount thing considered and that this may work out best for a family.

Cost Saving

Collaborative divorce utilizes the involvement of many professionals to guide a couple through the process of divorce. However, against what many expect, it does not mean it is a more costly process because of this. Collaborative divorce is usually roughly half the cost of the average litigated divorce because financial and mental health professionals will streamline the process and allow the experts to do what they’re supposed to do to help you.

Keeping Control And Privacy

In your typical court settlement, a judge who knows nothing about either of your lifestyles will be making decisions for you. Those decisions will live with you and your children the rest of your lives, so one must be very careful with deciding where to turn. Anything can and usually will be used as a weapon against you, and both sides need to be prepared for that. However, in collaborative divorce, your privacy remains maintained and only things directly relevant to the divorce process will be discussed.

Furthermore, it allows the family to stay out of court and retain privacy for both sides. This can reduce trauma, anxiety and feelings of general humiliation that can be brought on by the process. You will retain control of the process completely, and you will craft the agreements with the help of the collaborative team. The result is generally greater, which makes both sides happy.

Work With A Collaborative Divorce Firm You Can Trust

Talking to a spouse about collaborative divorce may be the best idea for you and your family. You may want to speak to an attorney at The Law Office of Soheila Azizi & Associates, P.C., today to find out where you stand. Many options will give you many benefits, and you have to decide what is right for you and your family.

Schedule a confidential consultation with one of the top family law firms in the Inland Empire. Call us at 909-259-1761 or send us an email explaining your legal issue and